We‘re Just Not That Into You

There are certain things that exist in sex, sexuality and the swinging lifestyle that just don’t make me wanna go hmmmmmm….. things that are supposed to be sexy but I’m just not that into it.

Things that are supposed to be sexy but just… aren’t

We bust on into some of the things in the swinging lifestyle that are supposed to be sexy, nude sushi ladies, porn in swingers clubs, food related things. We aren’t yucking anyone’s yum here, you do you but just remember that your turn on or ‘sexy’ might be someone else’s turn off so play fairly.

Communication is the key to all these things and this is just another example of why it’s important to share what gets you HOT or gets you NOT.

Firstly we get into some cultural tid bits about Texas and ZZ Top.. Cate still has no idea who this person / person / top hat wearing individual is.

We finish up by sharing some of your thoughts about what isn’t that hot in the swinging lifestyle. 

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