To Whom It May Concern,
As the owner of a swinger lifestyle dating site, I feel it is necessary to explain how my husband, Dave, and I visualize this exciting adventure known as Double Date Nation.
About five years ago, we began a journey into consensual non-monogamy. It changed us and our relationship forever. We made friends that we will likely have for the rest of our lives. We made memories that are often revisited, and most importantly, we made progress as two people in love and in a forever relationship. The shift in our paradigm was mind-altering.
After exploring the options for swinger lifestyle dating sites, we took a step back and considered creating our own. We wanted to give back to a community that gave us so much. This decision did not come lightly, and it took many late-night discussions and considerations of expenses, etc. After months of talking, we began the process of creating a website that offered security and advanced options for our community.
We did not consider competition and still don’t. Everyone has their thing, if their thing is not having a profile on DDN, that is ok. Other swinger dating sites have been around for a long time. Many people are comfortable on those sites, and that is fantastic! We didn’t create DDN to begin a battle of who is better or bigger etc. We are microscopic compared to the websites that were here before us, and that is ok. We intend to build our member base day by day. We are not in a race; we are not in a competition. We took this project on as a labor of love, and it will take as long as it takes to build our DDN community. We have put much of our personal life on hold, promoting, and traveling to spread the word of our new site. We don’t make empty promises; we do our best to provide outstanding customer service, a safe environment, and a functional website for our members. Double Date Nation is very personal and dear to us.
Others in the business world can make anything a pissing match. However, it takes two to fight. We are not in the business of dividing; we are in the business of bringing people together. We don’t and will never speak poorly of other swinger lifestyle businesses, sites, clubs, etc. Owning a business, especially one that can stir a ‘moral dilemma’ like those in the swinger lifestyle, is not easy. We are all in this together; we are a community. Provokers will not get pushback, slander, or return attack from Double Date Nation. We are in fellowship with others of like-mindedness, as long as we have our dear lifestyle friends, we will always have just what we need, the rest is just a perk.
In closing, you can love us; you can hate us, but we aren’t going anywhere. There is plenty of room for us all.
There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about. – Oscar Wilde
A cynic is a man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing. — Oscar Wilde
CEO- Double Date Nation