Swinger Lifestyle Resorts

The most popular tropical resorts are Desire and Hedonism II (Hedo). Desire has two resorts in Mexico, and Hedo is in Jamaica. There are two resorts called Desire in Mexico. Desire Pearl and Desire Riviera Maya (RM). There are differences in these resorts, and I am torn between the two....

Swinger Myths

From the curious swinger to be looking in on the swinger lifestyle, many things can be exaggerated or imagined just like anything else in the world. I am going to debunk some of the swinger myths that may have gone through my mind pre-swinger and that I have heard in...

To Whom It May Concern

To Whom It May Concern, As the owner of a swinger lifestyle dating site, I feel it is necessary to explain how my husband, Dave, and I visualize this exciting adventure known as Double Date Nation.  About five years ago, we began a journey into consensual non-monogamy. It changed us...

COVID-19

What are people in the swinging lifestyle community doing in times like the coronavirus pandemic? What are clubs and resorts doing to address the safety of their patrons? What are you doing to make sure that you are safe? These are all the questions looming around this serious health concern...

Why Would Anyone Become a Swinger?

My vanilla friends ask the age-old question, “why?” That is such a loaded question. The answer varies, as does the diversity of people that are involved in the swinging lifestyle. Conservative views of marriage are that it is built on love and monogamy only. People become involved in the swinging...

In a Perfect World

We don’t live in a perfect world and we never will. The reality of perfection is so out of the realm of possibility; we wouldn’t recognize it if it slapped us on the butt. But I digress, in a perfect world we wouldn’t feel chastised for expressing ourselves as we...

Desire Pearl VS Desire RM

Now let’s start with this; these are both resorts that do not require nudity or even topless patrons. With that said, if you have never gone topless or nude before you may feel comfortable in doing so before you leave the resort. Our first trip was to Desire Pearl, and...

The Margin of Error in the Lifestyle-Keep it Realistic

In my opinion, we should all have well-defined boundaries. Despite having discussed several scenarios and experiences with our partner, unforeseeable events can and likely, will arise. For instance, close friends of mine have a ‘no kissing’ rule. They do engage in full swap, but they do not kiss other people...

Being a Team Player is Not the Same as Taking One for the Team

The transition to playtime can be awkward enough as it is, but when there is not a four-way attraction and rejection is inevitable, that can be even more awkward. Avoiding this pressure often can lead to the feeling of this pressure overpowering doing the right thing for yourself. It is...

Do ‘Swingers’ Get Jealous?

  Short answer, yes. Those who are in an open relationship will likely experience normal emotional responses. It can happen, jealousy can creep in. Communication is so important. The intentionality may be completely innocent during an explicit experience, but how your partner perceives could be opposite. It is possible to...