Swinger Lifestyle Resorts

The most popular tropical resorts are Desire and Hedonism II (Hedo). Desire has two resorts in Mexico, and Hedo is in Jamaica. There are two resorts called Desire in Mexico. Desire Pearl and Desire Riviera Maya (RM). There are differences in these resorts, and I am torn between the two....

Swinger Myths

From the curious swinger to be looking in on the swinger lifestyle, many things can be exaggerated or imagined just like anything else in the world. I am going to debunk some of the swinger myths that may have gone through my mind pre-swinger and that I have heard in...

To Whom It May Concern

To Whom It May Concern, As the owner of a swinger lifestyle dating site, I feel it is necessary to explain how my husband, Dave, and I visualize this exciting adventure known as Double Date Nation.  About five years ago, we began a journey into consensual non-monogamy. It changed us...

COVID-19

What are people in the swinging lifestyle community doing in times like the coronavirus pandemic? What are clubs and resorts doing to address the safety of their patrons? What are you doing to make sure that you are safe? These are all the questions looming around this serious health concern...

Hedonism II

Recently we were fortunate enough to visit Hedo II in Negril, Jamaica. For Dave and I, this was our first trip, and we were not sure what to expect. Anytime that you visit a clothing-optional resort-like Hedo, it always makes it much easier when you know people at the resort...

Beautiful Inside-Out

Women have always had a tough time feeling the pressure of keeping up appearances. Now that social media and filters are popular; it’s damn near impossible. Aging is inevitable, and it seems that men become ‘distinguished’ women become ‘old.’ It is not a perfect vantage point, in my opinion. I...

Where Do I Find Good Advice about Non-Monogamy?

The world of swinging or open marriage or consensual non-monogamy has evolved so much over the past five years. There are bloggers, influencers, podcasters, just to name a few that have inspired those contemplating the lifestyle.  Everybody is looking for something to enhance their life, and the lifestyle is no...

What to Expect at a Lifestyle Club

Swinger clubs are not a crazed field of orgies and porn scenes. Now, are there sexual acts that you can find? Probably. Do you have to take part? Not. If you are new to the swinging lifestyle, these are likely questions you ask yourself. You can expect dancing and drinking....

Breaking the ‘Chains’

Monogamy is the act of a person being married to one person at a time. Does that mean that we can still enjoy the physical touch of someone outside of that marriage? With an open mind, many couples are turning to ethical non-monogamy. Having an open relationship is the choice...

Why Would Anyone Become a Swinger?

My vanilla friends ask the age-old question, “why?” That is such a loaded question. The answer varies, as does the diversity of people that are involved in the swinging lifestyle. Conservative views of marriage are that it is built on love and monogamy only. People become involved in the swinging...