Swinger Lifestyle Resorts

The most popular tropical resorts are Desire and Hedonism II (Hedo). Desire has two resorts in Mexico, and Hedo is in Jamaica. There are two resorts called Desire in Mexico. Desire Pearl and Desire Riviera Maya (RM). There are differences in these resorts, and I am torn between the two....

Ask Before You Touch – Guest Blog by The Kinky Koach

Guest Blog: Ask Before You Touch Author: The Kinky Koach     I want you to join me on an adventure in your imagination throughout the duration of this article. You and your partner have decided to go a lifestyle party, you have paid your entry fee, bought the perfect...

Hello, Nice to Meet Me

Women in the Lifestyle The advice that women get is always available and usually free. Be courageous and strong. You are beautiful, so own your insecurities. It’s so easy, right? Not so much.  It does take a certain amount of strength and confidence to be a part of the swinging...

Swinger Myths

From the curious swinger to be looking in on the swinger lifestyle, many things can be exaggerated or imagined just like anything else in the world. I am going to debunk some of the swinger myths that may have gone through my mind pre-swinger and that I have heard in...

Can’t We All Just Get Along?

Swinging, the lifestyle, open relationship, open marriage, consensual non-monogamy, what does all of this mean? There are several titles to give the swinging lifestyle. The internet makes it easier to connect than in the 1970’s when swinging was popularized. Networking is more comfortable because of the internet, but discretion can...

Who Am I?

I used to be that person. The one that judges and incriminates without all the details, because the only side that mattered was mine. The world of being narrow-minded and judgmental was my safe place. If I didn’t understand something, I was opposed to it, no questions asked. It was...

To Whom It May Concern

To Whom It May Concern, As the owner of a swinger lifestyle dating site, I feel it is necessary to explain how my husband, Dave, and I visualize this exciting adventure known as Double Date Nation.  About five years ago, we began a journey into consensual non-monogamy. It changed us...

COVID-19

What are people in the swinging lifestyle community doing in times like the coronavirus pandemic? What are clubs and resorts doing to address the safety of their patrons? What are you doing to make sure that you are safe? These are all the questions looming around this serious health concern...

Hedonism II

Recently we were fortunate enough to visit Hedo II in Negril, Jamaica. For Dave and I, this was our first trip, and we were not sure what to expect. Anytime that you visit a clothing-optional resort-like Hedo, it always makes it much easier when you know people at the resort...

Beautiful Inside-Out

Women have always had a tough time feeling the pressure of keeping up appearances. Now that social media and filters are popular; it’s damn near impossible. Aging is inevitable, and it seems that men become ‘distinguished’ women become ‘old.’ It is not a perfect vantage point, in my opinion. I...