AC/DC
Bi-sexual
Bareback
No condom used during sexual encounters.
BBW
Big Beautiful Woman
BDSM
Bi-Curious
Someone who would like to engage with someone of the same sex but has not had the opportunity to do so.
Bondage
Bull
D&D Free
Drug Free & Disease Free
Dominant
The powerful one, the one who takes control in a relationship and/or during intercourse.
Double Date
A couples date with no expectations of play.
Exhibitionist
Female Friendly
A woman who enjoys playing with both men and women during play but is not strictly bi-sexual.
FMF
Full Swap
A couple that fully trades spouses, for all activities that evening including intercourse.
Girl/Girl
Hall Pass
Hedonist
A pleasure seeker, self-indulgent.
Host
Provides the meeting place for people in the LS.
Kinky
Engaging in sexual activity that is considered to be out of the normal.
Lifestyle
Lifestyle is often referred to as the swinger community as a whole. However the term ‘Lifestyle’ actually encompasses more than just swinging, it includes all groups of people that are sexually open-minded.
MBC
Married Black Couple
MBiC
Married Bi-sexual Couple
MBF
Married Black Female
MBM
Married Black Male
Meet & Greet
Typically intended for people who are interested in the lifestyle. A no pressure event to meet other like-minded people.
MFM
A sexual situation where the female is having sex with two men in a variety of ways. The two men don’t have intentional sexual contact.
MWC
Married White Couple
MWF
Married White Female
MWM
Married White Male
Newbies
Couples or singles new to the lifestyle.
NSA
NSFW
Contains content that is not safe or suitable for work.
Off-Premise
Clubs that do not have play ares, play is not permitted.
On-Premise
Clubs that have play areas, play is permitted.
Open Relationship
When a couple agrees to have sexual relations with other people.
Pansexual
Is the attraction towards people regardless of their gender.
Play
Engaging in sexual activity.
Safe Word
A word that you and your partner have previously discussed prior to sexual encounters with others, meaning that you are not comfortable with the situation.
Same Room Play
Same room possible full swap as long as everyone is in the same room. It may also mean having sex in a room with another couple, each with their own partner, but have the ability to touch and watch one another.
SBF
Single Black Female
SBif
Single Bi Female
SBiM
Single Bi Male
SBM
Single Black Male
Separate Room Play
When a couple plays/swaps in a different room as their partner.
Submissive
The one who gives up control in a relationship and/or during intercourse.
SWF
Single White Female
Switch
A swinger who is willing to perform as either a Dom or Sub.
SWM
Single White Male
Unicorn
A single female interested in meeting other couples.
Vanilla
Non-swinger involved events or people. Anything not associate with the lifestyle would be considered vanilla. Anything event or person considered vanilla would likely not allow or tolerate talk about swinging or sex positive discussions.
Versatile
Another term meaning bi-sexual.
Voyeur
Someone that is sexually aroused by watching others engage in sexual activity.