Lifestyle Definitions

AC/DC

Bi-sexual

Bareback

No condom used during sexual encounters.

BBW

Big Beautiful Woman

BDSM

Bondage, Discipline, & SadoMasochism.

Bi-Curious

Someone who would like to engage with someone of the same sex but has not had the opportunity to do so.

Bondage

Restraints such as ropes, belts, stocking, straps, chains are used to bind or hold a participating sexual partner.

Bull

Single male that is available for NSA experience. The term Bull, leads to the assumption that they are well endowed.

D&D Free

Drug Free & Disease Free

Dominant

The powerful one, the one who takes control in a relationship and/or during intercourse.

Double Date

A couples date with no expectations of play.

Exhibitionist

Someone that enjoys being watched while engaging in sexual activity or nudity.

Female Friendly

A woman who enjoys playing with both men and women during play but is not strictly bi-sexual.

FMF

A sexual situation where 2 women (often bisexual) will have sex with one man.

Full Swap

A couple that fully trades spouses, for all activities that evening including intercourse.

Girl/Girl

No sexual interaction with the men, bisexual female play only.

Hall Pass

Individuals that have permission to play with another person or couple on their own away and separate from their partner.

Hedonist

A pleasure seeker, self-indulgent.

Host

Provides the meeting place for people in the LS.

Kinky

Engaging in sexual activity that is considered to be out of the normal.

Lifestyle

Lifestyle is often referred to as the swinger community as a whole. However the term ‘Lifestyle’ actually encompasses more than just swinging, it includes all groups of people that are sexually open-minded.

MBC

Married Black Couple

MBiC

Married Bi-sexual Couple

MBF

Married Black Female

MBM

Married Black Male

Meet & Greet

Typically intended for people who are interested in the lifestyle. A no pressure event to meet other like-minded people.

MFM

A sexual situation where the female is having sex with two men in a variety of ways. The two men don’t have intentional sexual contact.

MWC

Married White Couple

MWF

Married White Female

MWM

Married White Male

Newbies

Couples or singles new to the lifestyle.

NSA

No strings attached. This means there is no emotional involvement or expectation during or after a sexual experience.

NSFW

Contains content that is not safe or suitable for work.

Off-Premise

Clubs that do not have play ares, play is not permitted.

On-Premise

Clubs that have play areas, play is permitted.

Open Relationship

When a couple agrees to have sexual relations with other people.

Pansexual

Is the attraction towards people regardless of their gender.

Play

Engaging in sexual activity.

Safe Word

A word that you and your partner have previously discussed prior to sexual encounters with others, meaning that you are not comfortable with the situation.

Same Room Play

Same room possible full swap as long as everyone is in the same room. It may also mean having sex in a room with another couple, each with their own partner, but have the ability to touch and watch one another.

SBF

Single Black Female

SBif

Single Bi Female

SBiM

Single Bi Male

SBM

Single Black Male

Separate Room Play

When a couple plays/swaps in a different room as their partner.

Submissive

The one who gives up control in a relationship and/or during intercourse.

SWF

Single White Female

Switch

A swinger who is willing to perform as either a Dom or Sub.

SWM

Single White Male

Unicorn

A single female interested in meeting other couples.

Vanilla

Non-swinger involved events or people. Anything not associate with the lifestyle would be considered vanilla. Anything event or person considered vanilla would likely not allow or tolerate talk about swinging or sex positive discussions.

Versatile

Another term meaning bi-sexual.

Voyeur

Someone that is sexually aroused by watching others engage in sexual activity.