Sexual Fantasy & Object of Desire

Have you ever shared your sexual fantasies with your partner? What if your sexual fantasy is narcissistic or you’re a bit ashamed of it.

Sexual Fantasy

In this episode Cate shares a new sexual fantasy with Darrell and they talk about what makes a women feel desired, how this might impact flirting at swinging lifestyle events & why we change ourselves in sexual fantasies. 

We talk through the fantasy and reveal how it makes Cate feel, we follow up with some of your responses to your own sexual fantasies an if you feel guilt. We talk through what the Object of Desire Affirmation is and why it might be the key to flirting.

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