Here are some faux pas for swinging lifestyle etiquette, in the eyes of Admin Andi for what it’s worth. 

Do NOT-
Have sex in the lifestyle without using protection, ever, ever, ever. Cover it up or all bets are off. 

Do NOT-
Post outdated or overly photo-shopped pictures on your online profile. Why would you? Once you meet, the truth is exposed. Save everyone time, be honest up front. Don’t be so hard on yourself, you’re sexy just the way you are. 

Do NOT-
Lie to your spouse. Always keep clear lines of communication, the truth can hurt but lying is never acceptable. 

Do NOT-
Communicate with individuals that you have played with when your partner is not in the conversation. Don’t go there, unless it has been openly discussed and is acceptable to all involved. 

Do NOT-
Ghost people, try to let people know if you aren’t able to make a date. 

Do NOT-
Assume. Get consent, this goes for men and women. 

Do NOT-
Take one for the team. Nobody is a winner in that situation. 

Do NOT-
Drink too much. This is self-explanatory. A few drinks can help loosen things up, but now is not the time to overindulge. 

Do NOT-
Kiss and tell. The people you play with are placing an insane amount of trust in you. Keep names or other identifying information out of your sexy stories. 

Do NOT-
Forget your manners, please and thank you go a long way. Chivalry isn’t dead, for men or women. 

Do NOT-
Forget to tidy up. Your body is a wonderland, John Mayer says so.