Dave’s Perspective

My vanilla (non-lifestyle) friends often inquire about why I would consider being a part of the swinging lifestyle community. I get questions about being involved in a lifestyle where my wife has sex with whomever she wants. And I get to have sex with whoever I want, right? Wrong. This...

Lifestyle Sisterhood

You have been called a goddess, queen, matriarch, sister, madam, maiden, girl, vixen, seductress, siren, daughter. There are so many words to describe women. It amazes me how many of these words support sexuality. When I think of my fellow woman, I think of compassionate, educator, healer, friend, factory worker,...

Ask Before You Touch – Guest Blog by The Kinky Koach

Guest Blog: Ask Before You Touch Author: The Kinky Koach     I want you to join me on an adventure in your imagination throughout the duration of this article. You and your partner have decided to go a lifestyle party, you have paid your entry fee, bought the perfect...

Hello, Nice to Meet Me

Women in the Lifestyle The advice that women get is always available and usually free. Be courageous and strong. You are beautiful, so own your insecurities. It’s so easy, right? Not so much.  It does take a certain amount of strength and confidence to be a part of the swinging...

Swinger Myths

From the curious swinger to be looking in on the swinger lifestyle, many things can be exaggerated or imagined just like anything else in the world. I am going to debunk some of the swinger myths that may have gone through my mind pre-swinger and that I have heard in...

Can’t We All Just Get Along?

Swinging, the lifestyle, open relationship, open marriage, consensual non-monogamy, what does all of this mean? There are several titles to give the swinging lifestyle. The internet makes it easier to connect than in the 1970’s when swinging was popularized. Networking is more comfortable because of the internet, but discretion can...

Who Am I?

I used to be that person. The one that judges and incriminates without all the details, because the only side that mattered was mine. The world of being narrow-minded and judgmental was my safe place. If I didn’t understand something, I was opposed to it, no questions asked. It was...

COVID-19

What are people in the swinging lifestyle community doing in times like the coronavirus pandemic? What are clubs and resorts doing to address the safety of their patrons? What are you doing to make sure that you are safe? These are all the questions looming around this serious health concern...

Where Do I Find Good Advice about Non-Monogamy?

The world of swinging or open marriage or consensual non-monogamy has evolved so much over the past five years. There are bloggers, influencers, podcasters, just to name a few that have inspired those contemplating the lifestyle.  Everybody is looking for something to enhance their life, and the lifestyle is no...