Lifestyle is often referred to as the swinger community as a whole. However the term ‘Lifestyle’ actually encompasses more than just swinging, it includes all groups of people that are sexually open-minded.
A couple that fully trades spouses, for all activities that evening including intercourse.
Same room possible full swap as long as everyone is in the same room. It may also mean having sex in a room with another couple, each with their own partner, but have the ability to touch and watch one another.
Couples or singles new to the lifestyle.
Non-swinger involved events or people. Anything not associate with the lifestyle would be considered vanilla. Anything event or person considered vanilla would likely not allow or tolerate talk about swinging or sex positive discussions.
Individuals that have permission to play with another person or couple on their own away and separate from their partner.
No sexual interaction with the men, bisexual female play only.
Single male that is available for NSA experience. The term Bull, leads to the assumption that they are well endowed.
Someone that is sexually aroused by watching others engage in sexual activity.
Bondage, Discipline, & SadoMasochism.
A sexual situation where 2 women (often bisexual) will have sex with one man.
Someone that enjoys being watched while engaging in sexual activity or nudity.
A couples date with no expectations of play.
A single female interested in meeting other couples.
Contains content that is not safe or suitable for work.
A pleasure seeker, self-indulgent.
Another term meaning bisexual.
Single Black Male
Single Bi Male
Single Bi Female
Single Black Female
Married Black Male
Married Bisexual Couple
Married Black Female
Married Black Couple
Married White Couple
Married White Female
Married White Male
Single White Male
Single White Female
When a couple agrees to have sexual relations with other people.
A word that you and your partner have previously discussed prior to sexual encounters with others, meaning that you not comfortable with the situation.
The powerful one, the one who takes control in a relationship and/or during intercourse.
The one who gives up control in a relationship and/or during intercourse.
Engaging in sexual activity.
No condom used during sexual encounters.
Drug Free & Disease Free
A swinger how is willing to perform as either a Dom or Sub.
Same Room Play
When a couple plays/swaps in the same room as their partner.
Separate Room Play
When a couple plays/swaps in a different room as their partner.
Provides the meeting place for people in the LS.
Big Beautiful Woman
Engaging in sexual activity that is considered to be out of the normal.
A woman who enjoys playing with both men and women during play but is not strictly bi-sexual.
Someone who would like to engage with someone of the same sex but has not had the opportunity to do so.
Clubs that have play areas, play is permitted.
Clubs that do not have play areas, play is not permitted.
Meet & Greet
Typically intended for people who are interested in the lifestyle. A no pressure event to meet other like-minded people.
a sexual situation where the female is having sex with two men in a variety of ways. The two men don't have intentional sexual contact.