It’s fairly safe to assume that most every person has a fantasy, curiosity or fetish about something sexual. We are all human. Whether we choose to admit this or not is another story! People that swing are typically those who have been in a long term relationship and are open-minded sexually.  The only way to know if swinging is right for you and your partner is to COMMUNICATE! Yes, talk it out. Open up about fantasies, be vulnerable. This way you can both learn more about each other and then discuss what you might be open to trying together. There can be jealousy and confusion, especially in the beginning. Keep your mind open and try to see things how your partner is seeing it. Sometimes when jealousy transpires this is an immediate deal breaker, and swinging might not be right for you and that is ok. Swinging will only be successful if both parties are invested and good with the idea. This is not a race, you should not feel rushed to do anything in a certain amount of time. There is no right or wrong way to be a swinger.