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Swinger Lifestyle Resorts

The most popular tropical resorts are Desire and Hedonism II (Hedo). Desire has two resorts in Mexico, and Hedo is in Jamaica. There are two resorts called Desire in Mexico. Desire Pearl and Desire Riviera Maya (RM). There are differences in these resorts, and I am torn between the two. Desire has an exceptional staff that is very attentive and genuinely takes the time to get to know their guests. It is a classy resort that could use updating in some places, but they stay consistent with those needs. Desire Pearl has the new Mansion that was a recent addition

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Lifestyle Sisterhood

You have been called a goddess, queen, matriarch, sister, madam, maiden, girl, vixen, seductress, siren, daughter. There are so many words to describe women. It amazes me how many of these words support sexuality. When I think of my fellow woman, I think of compassionate, educator, healer, friend, factory worker, sex worker, bricklayer, bus driver, Broadway dancer, a dog trainer. Everyday words that fit the ability for a woman to be defined by more than their sexuality alone. This blog is not to downplay men or be an argumentative feminist but encourage to build one another up, especially in the

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Men want consent too… – Guest Blog by The Kinky Koach

Guest Blog: Men want consent too… Author: The Kinky Koach   Consent (verb) : to give assent or approval : Ex: ‘AGREE consent to being tested or She consented to our request.’ Archaic : to be in concord in opinion or sentiment Consent is an interesting word, broken down it means to give permission or receive an agreement. Interestingly enough it is made up of two words; con meaning to persuade, and sent- meaning delivered. It is here within the two words I would like to speak from, I mean let’s be real, to deliver a persuasion most certainly doesn’t

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Ask Before You Touch – Guest Blog by The Kinky Koach

Guest Blog: Ask Before You Touch Author: The Kinky Koach     I want you to join me on an adventure in your imagination throughout the duration of this article. You and your partner have decided to go a lifestyle party, you have paid your entry fee, bought the perfect outfit and arranged for the babysitter for the evening. Financially this party will cost you around $300-$500 after hotel, travel, entry, membership, alcohol etc; all for the evening out with sexy like-minded individuals. For many that is an investment that took months to save and that investment comes with unspoken

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Swinger Myths

From the curious swinger to be looking in on the swinger lifestyle, many things can be exaggerated or imagined just like anything else in the world. I am going to debunk some of the swinger myths that may have gone through my mind pre-swinger and that I have heard in my lifestyle journey. Myth #1 Swingers don’t know what love is if they can actually have sex with other people outside of their relationship. This is a common misconception. A word that I have learned in the swinging lifestyle is compersion. Compersion is feeling happiness or satisfaction from witnessing someone

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To Whom It May Concern

To Whom It May Concern, As the owner of a swinger lifestyle dating site, I feel it is necessary to explain how my husband, Dave, and I visualize this exciting adventure known as Double Date Nation.  About five years ago, we began a journey into consensual non-monogamy. It changed us and our relationship forever. We made friends that we will likely have for the rest of our lives. We made memories that are often revisited, and most importantly, we made progress as two people in love and in a forever relationship. The shift in our paradigm was mind-altering.  After exploring

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COVID-19

What are people in the swinging lifestyle community doing in times like the coronavirus pandemic? What are clubs and resorts doing to address the safety of their patrons? What are you doing to make sure that you are safe? These are all the questions looming around this serious health concern in our world today. The media tends to provoke fear when it is unnecessary; however, the pandemic has proven itself to be very serious. Some people started making plans when the news first launched information on COVID-19, others waited until the authorities mandated restrictions. Clubs had a decision to make,

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Hedonism II

Recently we were fortunate enough to visit Hedo II in Negril, Jamaica. For Dave and I, this was our first trip, and we were not sure what to expect. Anytime that you visit a clothing-optional resort-like Hedo, it always makes it much easier when you know people at the resort when you arrive. Having friends around can help ease the anxiety of the unknown. When we arrived, we checked in and took a tour of the resort. There is a ‘prude’ side and a ‘nude’ side. There are pools scattered around the resort, with people at like any vanilla resort.

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Beautiful Inside-Out

Women have always had a tough time feeling the pressure of keeping up appearances. Now that social media and filters are popular; it’s damn near impossible. Aging is inevitable, and it seems that men become ‘distinguished’ women become ‘old.’ It is not a perfect vantage point, in my opinion. I think women of all ages have the beauty that comes with wisdom and life experience, but not everyone shares my opinion—joining the lifestyle spares no pressure, unfortunately. I have learned one thing in the swinger lifestyle, don’t overthink it. If you have a sexy date coming up, you aren’t going

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