Crossing The Line in The Lifestyle – EP39

How do you come back from an experience where one partner feels the other crossed the line in the lifestyle? We share a personal story, why it can occur and how you come back together after.

SHOW NOTES:

Why Does It Happen?

  • Uninhibited: chemical, libations, hormones
  • Miscommunication: verbal, non-verbal, codes
  • Not on the same page: conservative, enthusiastic
  • Temptations by another
  • Unconsidered situation
  • Innocent reason
  • Nefarious reason
  • Unknown reaction

How Do You Come Back?

  • Growing Opportunity
  • Compassion
  • Communication
  • Responsibility
  • Appreciation
  • Re-establish trust: understanding, step-back, reconnect, communicate, patience, needs, new rules, clarity, priorities

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