88: SD 76 When you play in separate rooms, do you give blowjobs without condoms?

We are so lucky. We live an amazing life. Sometimes we have to pinch ourselves to believe it’s real. Almost every weekend this past month we have traveled all over the country to visit amazing sexy venues, parties and friends. Even though this podcast is entertainment and information for our listeners, it’s also our diary and so in this episode we indulge ourselves with a few minutes of memories as we recount our recent adventures.

Because we visit so many great events, in The Best or the Lifestyle we discuss the best themes  that party planners can use to get the maximum participation by their guests. We then ask a question of our listeners for our own benefit because we don’t know the answer and we get a little lesson about the benefits of separate room play. Our listen’s question is a great one too. It’s all about the inconsistency of condom use for oral and vaginal sex in the swinging lifestyle. 

We don’t play separate, not really as rule but more as a preference, but this month’s diary story is the memory of an encounter where we pushed that boundary. The experience was interesting but it definitely cemented our feeling that, for us, we will always have and always will prefer to be together when it come to playtime.

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