22. Erotic Massage (aka: Come on, Come on, Now Touch Me Babe)

Are you ready to lay back, relax and get touched ALL OVER? Erotic massage is a fantastic way get into a sexy mindset, amp up foreplay and reach new orgasmic heights. 

For many women, the idea of an erotic massage, whether it is with their primary partner or with someone new, is a huge turn on. The problem is that women don’t have any place to go to look for information. So the wives are here to educate you on erotic massage options. 


First, mix up this season’s most sophisticated cocktail, a Blood Orange Manhattan, while listening to this week’s Hot Tale!  When Ams has a fantasy about meeting a sexy stranger at a bar, Mr. Ams and their new friend, Scarlett, step up to make her fantasy come true. 

Next the Wives explore erotic massage, the use of massage techniques by one person on another person’s erogenous zones for their sexual pleasure.  Erotic massage is used by some people on occasion as a part of sex, either as foreplay or as the final sex act. It doesn’t require any special skills, but there are a few ways to make the experience better: set the mood, take your time and use lots of oil or lube (of course!) 

To take things to the next level, the Wives interview the sweet and sexy Lauren from Room77 podcast about her Art of Touch workshop. 

Finally, the Wives discuss their sexy homework assignments: it’s time go to the professionals and get a true erotic massage!  There is a large commercial erotic massage industry in some countries and cities, which may call their establishments massage parlours, spas, or saunas. If you look at the industry of erotic massage, or search for it online it has a super-seedy, male-pleasure dominating vibe.   With names like “Happy Ending Massage” or links to porn hub. It can seem misogynistic, objectifying and transactional.  So, the Wives consider ways to make this experience as empowering and sexy as possible. 

Make tonight’s sex the ultimate in self-care.  Use your words and ask your partner to give you an erotic massage! 

We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories.  We may feature you on the show! 

More About Erotic Massage:



Article about a male masseuse who focuses on female pleasure: https://intimacy-institute.teachable.com/p/learn-erotic-massage 


Books – How to

Books – Erotica 


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Room 77 – Art of Touch

Art of Touch Playlist


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