Consensual non-monogamy is so much more than just being open to including others who are outside of your primary relationship. It’s not just about doing it with others. It’s more about opening your own mind about who you open your legs to. Consensual non-monogamy asks you to open up to yourself (and your partner). In this episode we have a discussion, with complete relaxed acceptance, about how feeling attractive, being attractive to others, and having an attraction for others, is a good thing. Unlike what happens with couples in vanilla world, who may argue/feel rejected when one partner finds someone else attractive, the reality is, finding others attractive does not actually negate the attraction you have for your partner. It even enhances it! To fully and freely express yourself with words, and with your body, within and outside of your relationship, without it being a threat to the relationship IS what the lifestyle is all about. So join us and listen in on this smexy convo as we demonstrate how to include discussions about “finding other people attractive” into your relationship talk . Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We’d love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSoul