14: The (Wo)Man in the Mirror – A Confidence Crisis

This follow on to our episode on “The Imposter Syndrome,” digs in deeper on the crisis of confidence we sometimes feel and the “quicksand” that occurs when we start to flail.  Join us as we open up a bit on our own confidence crisis and sit back and have a long look at the man & woman in the mirror…trying to get to the truth of why we feel the way we do…and how to overcome it.

#Spoiler – all it takes is one great experience to turn things around!

We also catch up on all things Podcast-A-Palooza, Casual Toys, Unique Condoms, and of course…the MARCH 2022 Whiskey of the Month!


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