Some consider “cougar” a derogatory term. It’s ageist. It’s sexist and there’s just something slightly tacky about it that many women don’t want that label attached to them. Typically, a cougar is defined as an older woman who is primarily attracted to, and may have a sexual relationship with, significantly younger men. In general, the woman is 35 years or older, the man is more than eight years her junior. Cougars were most often described as “desperate”, “aggressive” and/or “predators”. Well all this uneasiness is shifting. Some younger men get a sexual high from a hottie who is independent, experienced, sexually confident, knows herself and what she likes. Some women are interested in the excitement, energy and enthusiasm of a younger guy who is playful and adventurous and can go all night long. In this episode we challenge ourselves (and the social norms about age and sexuality) as we embrace the new empowered flavour of this term. And since we do play with younger men, we decided to try something new – attending an organized event that specifically pays tribute to the beauty and sex appeal of women, and the younger men who enjoy this dynamic. Join us as we join in the Cougars & Cubs Event, a special edition of Oasis Agualounge’s under 35 Sass After Class themed Monday nights. WARNING: Avoid operating machinery while listening to this episode. There is a potential safety hazard due to excessive laughter. Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We’d love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls
14: Cougars & Cubs: Sexually Confident Women Who F*** Younger Men – TS14
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