11. Impact Play Part 1 (aka: This will only hurt a little bit)

There is a lot of fear and misconceptions about what impact play, mainly, that it’s all about pain and humiliation. In reality, impact play isn’t one-size fits all. The Wives tackle this issue, top and bottom, discussing some impact play basics and interviewing Kink Expert and professional dominatrix Kimi Inch. 

First, does the idea of a little slap and tickle give you the chills? Well, start by mixing up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Salted Caramel Coffee.  And because good impact play requires a warm up, the Wives get things started with some extra steamy Hot Tales: Kat finds out that a sexy shower experience with Mr. Ams leads to an idea for a genius invention (Shark Tank, here we come!) and Ams gushes over her special birthday surprise: a six-handed massage, followed up by an MFM threesome. 

Next, the Wives discuss some impact play basics: safe words, safe zones and warm up. And, for those of you wondering whether Ams and Kat ever play together, you can hear all about the first time Kat got spanked…by Ams! 

Finally, the Wives interview Kink Expert Kimi Inch. Kink expert Kimi Inch (aka Mistress Nina Payne) has been involved in the BDSM lifestyle as a professional Dominatrix since 2002. She was hired by New York’s top dungeons to develop training programs for their new employees. This eventually led her to bringing her kink knowledge to the mainstream by holding public workshops as a way to teach and empower curious individuals and couples on how to enhance their sex lives through kink and fantasy exploration. 

Alongside her classes, Kimi is trained at the Institute of Core Energetics and holds somatic therapy sessions which are focused around intimacy, relationship help, and sexual healing. 

With over 325,000 followers on her social media platforms – Kimi Inch has lectured at Princeton University, The Embodiment Conference, and The One World Tantra Festival. In addition to this, she has been featured in several media outlets like The Wall Street Journal, Cosmo magazine, and New York Post. Plus also has made numerous television appearances, having been featured on ABC’s 20/20, ABC’s Nightline, and The Oprah Winfrey Network’s Our America with Lisa Ling.

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