10: Out of Bounds – Rules vs Boundaries in the Lifestyle

So often when we meet folks we click with the conversation turns to “rules,” which often times become a checklist of things we shouldn’t do if we want the other side to continue engaging with us…that feels…wrong? 

Is there a better conversation to have other than the “Pretty Woman,” conversation that goes something like this: “I’m pretty much a sure thing, but I never kiss on the mouth.”  What are some of our own boundaries & rules we’ve had over the years? What’s the DIFFERENCE between a “rule,” and a boundary?

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We’ll get into all of it on this week’s Casual Swinger!


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